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October 20, 2007
13:13
وانت شكو؟
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في مجتمعنا الظريف ناس يعطون نفسهم الحق في تقديم النصائح من دون ان يطلب منهم

على سبيل المثال،،، لي يات البنت تتزوج فجآه ينطَون لها ناس ماتدري من آي ارشيف طالعين! يباركون ويسئلون آسئله ما تخصهم وبعدها تبدا الاسطوانه: "ترى الرياييل ما يبيلهم جذي... صدقيني ما ينفع الا جذي... بس مو تسوين نفس فلانه... ترى علانه صار لها جذي لانها جذاك..." ومن الكلام اللي لا يودي ولا يجيب

and what's funny is usually those people are not happily married. Actually, it is not funny, it's just sad. On the other hand, happy people who truly care about you would ask "Please tell me you're happy" because this is what truly matters.

اش بتفيدكم التفاصيل؟؟ ترى اللغابة شينة
October 07, 2007
0:30
I thought I was very Independent...
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But now I have come to the conclusion that I can not live without a house maid.

P.S. I have a job that is making me socially retarded!
October 06, 2007
1:00
Everything is Possible...
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But there are only 24 hours in a day.

Out of the subject:
Some one told me
"Blogs are for lonely people"
What do you think?
October 05, 2007
13:00
That's It !
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I am moving out of Blogger.com
Moving to a new home in a world called wordpress.com.

Wish me a good luck.
September 15, 2007
14:00
Sappycards — heavy on charm and full of wit.
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If you were the last person on Earth,

that would mean I'd be dead, and you'd have a stupid greeting card to remember me by.

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Now that's the kind of card I would like to give.
Click here for more cards.

And for a special someone:

I love youand stuff.

(وايد معبَر)
September 10, 2007
18:00
"Institutionalised"
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Don't they say, marriage is an institution????
Well, I am Institutionalised, now..
Everybody is happy and I have nothing to complain about, yet...I wish you a happy Ramadan, ow gergai3an ow gergai3an :*

Have I mentioned that I love Tulips?
September 01, 2007
0:00
Open Your Eyes
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Open Your Eyes
May 30, 2007
7:30
BLOGGING NO MORE (April 2005 - May 2007)
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BLOGGING
..
NO MORE
..
(April 2005 - May 2007)
May 28, 2007
15:00
Me, X, Y and Mrs.Boss
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Mrs.Boss: Where is Papillona?
Answer: She's at Ms.X's office.

Mrs.Boss: Where is X?
Answer: She's taking a break, with Papillona.

Shil mishkila? We work hard and get along with our coworkers and we manage to make it fun.
Laish lazim ilwa7id ykashirr ya3ni serious?

So, who the hell is Y?
Y, is the reporter tiger. Why tiger? 'cause that's what she wears min suba7 allah khair. At the end of working hours she delivers the daily report in Deeeeeeetails to Mrs.Boss. Especially the details about me and/or X.

Women, grow up! Everywhere I go lazim ti6la3li wa7da who is emotionally unstable? Jealous? Maybe.. It's either that or Mrs.Boss has feelings for X.

I always wanted a male Boss. It's not that women lack the ability to use logic, but it's easier, at least for me. It's always easier to set limits with men than women. Besides, most women especially in our culture no matter how intelligent they are, they rarely keep a professional level with other women and usually allow emotions to cloud their logical judgment.

I love X. We're friends. But Mrs.Boss is acting like "The Wife" and I'm "The Mistress"

Question: Are women likely to be jealous of other women more than men are jealous of other men?
If so, WHYY?
May 27, 2007
6:30
قهوة
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مالي خلق شي اليوم
May 25, 2007
23:00
I Don't Lie
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Why would one lie?
In one word: Fear. People lie because they are afraid that by telling the truth they will be hurt, or they will feel guilt for hurting someone else. That is just ridiculous. I wont list excuses for lying because I don't accept any form/color of lies (white/black or purple). A lie is a lie - there are no forms nor colors. So, people lie because they're afraid??????????
I don't lie because I don't fear anyone.
On Marriage: It's been said that it is best to marry a friend. Or at least the one you marry should remain your friend.
On Relationships: One should be so flexible, have little expectations so as to avoid disappointments.
On Men: Men usually are not very secure even if they seem full of confidence. They are all little boys underneath. Honestly, they're huge hairy babies.
so how was your weekend?
May 22, 2007
17:00
To hope is to risk pain..
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What makes life worth living is knowing that one day you'll wake up and find the person that makes you happier than anything in the whole world. So don't ever lose hope and give up, everything turns out okay and good always wins.
May 21, 2007
22:14
Gold Fish Memory
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One of the known facts about me is that I have a bad memory, the worst! It started first when I wanted to [delete] certain events from my [system] and I enjoyed it. I kept on [deleting] and [refreshing] but now it became incontrollable !! I keep forgetting almost everything, including things I've said or done. Like now.. I want to tell you about a recent incident on how I keep forgetting things but I seriously can't remember any of it.
THIS IS BAD!
I even have phone numbers saved on my mobile and I have no idea who they are. I can not remember when I met those people and WHY do I have their phone numbers??

So is there some kind of treatment for that? I wanted to do a little research but I have no time and I'm feeling sleepy *yawning*

Bon nuit
(If you're reading this in the morning: Good morning)
May 20, 2007
14:30
#1 Tip To Build A Better Life
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Walk away from negative people
who use excuses and complaint about everything.

I have realized that usually we think we want something (being driven by ideals) but deep inside, at least subconsciously, we want something totally different. Do whatever YOU want. Life is too short to be thinking about right or wrong depending on others views. One's happiness is the only thing that matters.

So, tell me, are you happy?
A song in my head
May 18, 2007
14:00
I've Been Tagged: حـــــروف
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I was tagged by a lovely lady from UAE: عــــــــــائــشــه

A - Available or Single: Both, so far

B - Best friend: A best friend is the one I can have long conversations with, the one who listens and not judge. The one who REMEMBERS everything. Through the good times and the bad time they're always there.

C - Cake or Pie: Cake

E - Essential Item: Tooth brush

F - Favorite Color: White

G - Gummy bears or Worms: Neither

H - Home Town: Kuwait

I - Indulgence: Good company + good food

J - January or February: January ow chinna il bakhat

K - Kids: Little devils

L - Life: Fun

M - Marriage: Living together legally

N - Number of Siblings: 3

O - Oranges or Apples: Apples

P - Phobias: None. I swear, I'm a brave woman

Q - Favorite Quote

" A right is not what someone gives you; it's what no one can take from you"
-Ramsey Clark-
R - Reason to Smile: Many: Good health of the following: a loving family, great friends, crazy cousins, adorable nephews - They're all the reason I smile :-)

S - Season: Summer

T - Tag Three People (optional)
1. eshda3wa ya 7afith
2. Shurouq
3. and DR
U - Unknown Fact About Me
I always publish my post either at --:00 or --:30. Never in between.

V/W - Worst Habit: Too many!... I'm afraid if I list them, you'll like me less :-(

X/Y - Your Favorite Food: Italian (Food & Men)

Z - Zodiac: Cancer
May 17, 2007
16:30
Stinks مع مرتبة الشرف
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People in our country usually hire the dirtiest people to be in charge of cleaning. Let me tell you about the two cleaning boys at work.. The thin & the chubby - they're both filthy and they stink too.
The thin one, I don't know if he has a name, I don't mean to be inconsiderate but the dude doesn't speak any of the languages we know. All he can do is: Fill the place with his body odor. And with rising temperature it's getting stronger each day. He stinks 10 meters away (3ala golat my friend: He stinks بجدارة) seriously!
Stinks مع مرتبة الشرف
Stinks مع مرتبة الأرف
The chubby one is called is another story, he doesn't stink as much. He's called "Islam" but I call him "Kufur" only because he walked on me once in the ladies room and thank god I was only hiding in there.

Which makes me wonder: Why is he always inside the ladies room??? I walked in a couple of time and found it locked, I thought it was one of the girls so I waited only to find "Kufur" walking out the ladies room. So I asked: "What were you doing in there?". He mumbled a few words which I didn't understand and with a big smile on his face he pointed at the floor trying to tell me he was cleaning. Cleaning? Cleaning 6al
[Faj2a: Ya3ni shino (6al)? as in (6al ib 3aina)]
Just when I thought of suggesting to get proper people to clean up the place, God sends me all the dust in the world (and why is it orange?) to make the place even more dirty AND sends me allergies. It was definitely not my day.
Dear God,

Thank you for all the dust you sent us today,
now can we have some rain?

truly,
Papillona
May 12, 2007
9:00
5 Things I Hate About Myself
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Everybody has something about themselves they don't like. In my long years on this planet (Someone at work thinks I'm from a different one) I have never met any one that is completely happy with their body, personality, life, lover, parents, family, school, career, choices, etc..

Even if you are content with yourself and are happy with the majority of your lives, you usually have a few things that need changing. And those things definitely change. If you ask yourself what you liked or disliked about your life when you were 18, you'd give me a number of different things. None of which would be on your list today (maybe one or two). Right? Anyway, my list for today (May 12) is:
1. I hate how I have become short-tempered lately, everything gets to me.
2. I hate the fact that I am vegetarian.
3. I hate how cold and emotionless I can pretend to be. While in the inside I want to scream "I love you" and hug because we're no angels and we should forgive. But sometimes I'm idiotically stubborn.
4. I hate how I over analyze relationships.
5. I hate the funny faces I make while adjusting the wedgy. Like EVERYBODY has to know what I'm doing.
Despite all the above I still love me (I mean someone has to). So tell me, what do you people hate about yourselves?
*The word "hate" is used for lack of a better word. Like when I say I hate something, 90% of the time I just dislike it. Not real hate.
May 11, 2007
16:30
When someone says..
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"We need to talk"
It means: you're in trouble
May 10, 2007
20:30
Boomshine كله من
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Every time I think of posting something new, I get busy with Boomshine (Check previous post). So I decided to post something light and short.
الطليان
We love Italian's, don't we? Well, at least I do. Not only do they have the hottest men and the best designers and the great food. They have GELATO!
So where can you have the best gelato?
The answer is..
If you ever go to Marina Mall, try this:
All I have been doing for the past week is eat eat eat and eat again, and people keep telling me that I lost weight. Whatever!!! mu gadra asakkir 7alji. Perhaps it's something in the weather?
المهم انتو شلونكم؟
May 05, 2007
11:00
Keep Your Eye on the Balls
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I am supposed to go out an hour ago but I'm late now. Blame who? Boomshine! An addictive game indeed.
How to play:
The screen is filled with a varying number of colorful dots. With a click of your mouse, you create an orb, which expands, ensnaring the dots. When your orb hits a dot, that dot expands and swallows up other dots. The goal is to create a chain reaction, by which you encase as many colored dots as possible.

Click to play

Update: 4:30 pm I MADE IT!
I'm not one of the TOP 10 but at least my name is there
Yaaay!
May 03, 2007
22:00
From Her Diary
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What do I like about you?
You are very respectable, a gentleman. You have very kind eyes and gentle face, wisened by age, disciplined, intelligent and you do have sense of humor. In fact, you’ve got a great sense of humor. You’re very funny you make me laugh until my tummy hurts and you get my jokes too. You’re honest and spontaneous.. Mentally, we connect and I know for a fact that you write well. I love that in a man. And on top of all, you’re very passionate to the things that really matter in life..
You’re down to earth. You have strong principles and more importantly, you’re a friend whom I can have good long conversations with.. You’ve got everything I ever wanted in a man.. It’s truly amazing but I am afraid it’s only a dream and knowing the truth one day will just ruin my dream and give me nightmares instead..
A year later, their reality has become a dream.. Their dream is reality.
May 01, 2007
22:00
Be Free From Past Hurts & Current Pain
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May.no.secret
April 29, 2007
22:00
She..
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She created a secret blog to vent where she does not put more pressure on him or hurt him. She waited patiently for him. Today, I read her blog: It wasn't easy..
She doesn’t really need him. She has never complained about living her life solo. But it's him who changed her beliefs. She believes that having a partner to share our highs, lows, successes and disappointments makes life more satisfying and now she admits: "Sharing makes me happy". She wanted to share many things with him. But he doesn't seem to be there. There's always something that comes first and it's not her.
She's in love, but she's not lucky this time to have loved and lost when the story hasn’t even started.

I wish life and love are simpler than this, but the truth is they are so complicated and sometimes you just want to give up. Yes, give up. It’s never easy when knowing it’s not meant to be, when you have to pick up the pieces and move on.

and again I say:

“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option”
April 28, 2007
11:30
Celebrities & Us
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Most people are dissatisfied with the way they look to some degree. I am sure you know at least one person who is worried about her/his appearance. For example when people go out, they usually stare at other people and focus on the details of others' personal appearance and compare them to draw negative conclusions about themselves. What makes them feel dissatisfied with their appearance? In other words, What makes them have a negative body image? The answer is: Celebrities.

In the 50's, Marilyn Monroe’s figure was seen as desirable. Since that time the ideal body shape for women has become gradually thinner. Unfortunately, for many people the ideal body of their times is difficult (if not impossible) to achieve. At this time, women are becoming thinner and thinner. Blame who? Paris Hilton?

Seriously, two years ago the girls who were overweight, a few days back, I saw the same faces but on skinny bodies. Skin and bones, people! Not to mention the new noses and chins. Everyone looked like a celebrity at that wedding. Yes, dear readers, Kuwaiti women in particular, are now looking better than celebrities.

However, to me, what is sad and upsetting is that there are people who could not become that because it's physically impossible, and because they have limited happiness to looking this way, they are depressed and socially isolated. They have been avoiding social gatherings and occasions because they feel less attractive or not attractive at all.

Some are too obsessed, they constantly seek reassurance from others that they look good or at least 'normal'. Like at the wedding:

Scene #1: Papillona & Flana: Someone I barely know.
Papillona: Hi flana
Flana: Hiii Papillona! How have you been?
Papillona: I've been great, and you?
Flana looked around and came closer to ask: Do I look good?
Papillona: Of course!
Flana: what about my hairdo?
Papillona: It's a bit weird... but it's not bad at all! *smiling*
(I wonder which celebrity or insect she wanted to look like)

Scene #2: Papillona & The Bride
Papillona: You look amazing (ityaninneeeeeen! gomar gomar)
The Bride: Really? really Papillona? tell me the truth
Papillona: Bride! It's not the right time to obsess about your appearance! You look amazing, I MEAN IT! All eyes on you and zillions of cameras!!!! now act a little confident (fashalteena!)

Yuba you have gotten it wrong for many years because right now, where you are, as you are is never enough. This is wrong! Just be kind to yourself, you must learn to accept yourself unconditionally - that you are perfect exactly as you are.
*I wonder if you'd be happier if you put as much effort into accepting yourself as you do into changing yourself
April 25, 2007
2:00
A Poem, Married Men and True Love
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I got ten letters from people I never thought they had something to say.. It was very touching and today I got this poem from my baby cousin
A Great Woman
Her body washed down with beauty
Her face lights up even in the darkest places
Her eyes tell a story of love
Her tongue creates words as sweet as honey
Her thoughts are a work of art, a painting
Her true beauty can not be seen with the naked eye
Yet, Her true beauty is more apparent than her own skin
Wisdom runs through her veins
A Great woman she is, with much to teach
Even when nothing is said, I learn

Isn't she adorable? I'm speechless.

Ok, so enough about me now. Let's talk about Married Men. Haven't you notice how it has become very common for married men to hit on girls? I personally heard many stories and when the part comes where the girl reminds the man that he's married, his answer is either: "but I am not happy" (e bas ana mo sa3eed) OR "il-shar3-7allal-arba3" excuse. What an excuse?!!

Today I had an interesting conversation with my wise friend about Married Men and how some married men would act too available and sometimes they might hit on single girls or innocently compliment them. So she said that "some of them use that line to open closed roads to their direction and some genuinely mean it and felt they should say it..
married men are not dead they have feelings too but the sad part is that they are more outgoing and are much much naughtier than the single guys"
So basically if it was up to men, there would be no boundaries so it's is you, women, who set limits to define the boundaries for acceptable behavior. (3alashan ma tseer il salfa hadad)

and as love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage, the topic has digressed to a more interesting subject than marriage - love, that is. "Love is a myth" a married man said to me. I obviously disagree with that. Because love, to me, is a strong feeling that affects your life positively, love adds value to your life. It's when you want to wake up early every morning, wanting to be the best person you can be because you want your loved ones to be proud of you. Because their existence in your life is enough reason why you should be happy.

Then he said "Papillona, you come from a different home, a romantic home where your dad and mom fell in love and got married, of course love has different meanings to you than it does to me". I just realized, it's true and I consider myself lucky :-)

Random question: When was the last time you did something for the first time?

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